Mediation: the sensible decision after divorce or separation.In the unfortunate situation of divorce or separation people often turn to solicitors in the first instance. However, what initially appears to be a quick solution can often turn into a series of unanticipated problems. Legal costs can be extremely high, and reduce the value of a divorce settlement once they are deducted. Using solicitors can also be a time consuming process. Some separated couples find that using solicitors can make the process more adversarial and cause unintended stress and worry for all parties, including children.As a first step in divorce and separation, it is beneficial to consider mediation.